How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What I have noticed is nearly every girl I try to connect with whom reject me are in their early 20s why is that the case?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What is the naughtiest fantasy that you've lived out?

Ask yourself:

That's it for today.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

One day, I happened to walk past where my crush was with friends. Then all of a sudden they start laughing, and someone maybe him, goes "freaking (my name) with her freaking hair!" Can anyone offer insights into this? We're in middle school.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How would you advertise if you wanted to be a "tour guide" who can take you through the dark web while warning you what not to look at and not to click on?

Procrastinates a lot.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why does it smell so bad? I noticed that when I move around my vagina has a stench. It’s usually a wet liquid, almost like pee. There’re little to no discharge and it doesn’t hurt or itch.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Do not set goals—set systems.

What is a good investment portfolio for someone starting in their 20s? 90% VT and 10% BND for a Roth IRA then 100% TDF for a 401k?

Does not procrastinate.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why would my nipples hurt when I touch them?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why am I peeing so much without drinking a lot of water? I checked my blood sugar and it is normal. Could it be something else?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Making more friends is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What I need from you?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.